Trust in the Community
In the ABDL community I know it is hard to trust people unless of course that person shows you their face while wearing a diaper or something along those lines. But, sometimes people are not comfortable with that and people in this community have to be accepting of that. That is where TRUST comes into play. Yes, you will never ‘truely’ know who you are talking to unless you seem them on webcam or talk to them on the phone but even then. People have their boundaries and limits in which their professional or personal life for that matter may inhibit them from sharing certain things for risk of losing things very important to them. People in this community need to accept that and have a little trust otherwise you are never going to be comfortable with someone on any level unless by of course the random little talks of "hows your diaper?" or "how was your day?" – because the comfortability is not there. Even though it is hard to trust – you must give certain people the benefit of the doubt until they prove you otherwise. Maybe actually engage in a real conversation other than about diapers and you could potentially know that person on a little deeper level than diapers. Just a thought!
AKbound Says:
Well said…as much as I like my diapers, or having my own wife in diapers, it’s not everyday that I want to talk about them to everyone, nor do I want everyone talking to me about my diapers or what they would like to do to my wife in her diapers! It’s nice to just talk to people at times about other things in life. Maybe play some video games together, or talk about other interest. Not everything in life, even on these sites revolves around diapers. Also, sometimes I feel respect can go a long way. As someone who had a site before, it was rather annoying to have people message my wife, knowing I was right there with her and trying to talk all sexy to her, or what they wanted to do to her as If I wasn’t even there! Same goes here I think…these two are engaged and appear to be very happy together…so why all the sexual comments all the time just to get yourselves off? Go look at some porn or something else I personally feel. Sure they got pictures up, but maybe some people can just apprecaite them for that, a window into someone elses lives instead of just one more site to go to to get your blood (and hands) pumping! Just my two cents…
Posted on March 16th, 2008 at 2:39 am
Jes Says:
I couldn’t agree more. Anyone who I converse with on diaperspace, or in chat knows that being a diaper lover is only a very small part of my very active life. I enjoy conversations on all topics, and many days go bye without even the mention of diaper use. This is a community of interesting, vibrant, and intelligent people…we should be interacting accordingly.
Posted on November 20th, 2008 at 12:39 pm